If a girl can’t find a guy who’s perfect, the next best thing to her is a guy who’s so incredibly imperfect that she just knows she can change him. Are you a pretty good dude with a few minor shortcomings? Tough titties — enjoy your loveless life of tears, obesity, and a very well-moisturized dong.
No girl likes you for you; they want nothing more than for you to transform into the version of yourself that they want you to be. It’s a hard pill to swallow, but get used to it. Chicks are always thinking about ways they can change you, despite how much they might say you’re the man of their dreams. Because of that fact, I decided to find out, in a general sense, what the most important changes they want guys to make are.
Ladies, what do guys need to start doing?
Paying attention to girls’ interests and acting on them. Instead of doing cliche and basic dates such as dinner and a movie, take the girl where she would have more fun. If she’s into basketball, take her to a game. If she has a favorite musician that comes to town, go see them. There are smaller and less expensive things you can do to show her that you care for her, but those are just a few. Get creative. – Kellie Stritz
Like in general? Changing their crusty sheets more than once a year. – Ali Hinman
I would say guys need to start getting better at not having generic dates, conversations, etc. I think when dating, guys get into a routine, and as a girl, it’s extremely easy for me to detect that you’ve had this exact same conversation with other girls. – Rachel Page
Text me back as soon as you read it. And add me on find my friends. – PlattyBlonde
Shaving. Everywhere. Girls are pretty much broken records when it comes to nagging guys to keep the hair “down there” maintained, but recently it seems like there’s been an excessive number of guys trying to grow beards. That being said, there’s one thing I have to make clear: the attempted facial hair that ends up looking more like a stringy pedophile mustache is not hot. There might be some guy out there who just lives for his perfectly manicured beard and there is probably some chick out there who would be DTF the Dan Bilzerian looking type (newsflash: that girl is not me), but no girl on the face of the planet is going to be turned on by those thin pubes on your upper lip. Sometimes the 5 o’clock shadow can be hot, but the scruff has to be well-maintained. My goal is to make out with a hottie, not smother my face in a fucking prickly-ass rosebush. – Blonde_boozy
Idk. Caring? – Cristina Montemayor
Shave your beard. Please. It doesn’t feel good, and it doesn’t look good unless you have the jaw line of David Beckham. – PSLsandPearls
Manscaping your ball sack and butt crack. Don’t be lazy about your hard-to-reach areas, and I won’t be lazy about mine. – Shannon Layne
Taking some responsibility. I mean, the actual probability of every girl you’ve ever dated being crazy is slim to none. So odds are that some of your past relationship issues are on you, and it’s time that you start owning that. But don’t think I’m putting it all on you – the likelihood of all guys we’ve dated being assholes is also nil, so us ladies need to step up here too. – 2NOTbrokegirls
Cleaning. I’m an adult and so are you. Your apartment should reflect that and at least be organized and tidy. I’m not anyone’s maid, and I will never be the type of girl to clean someone’s apartment. If you can’t/won’t do it, hire someone who will. Just keep your place clean. – ChampagneShowers
4 words: Making. Her. Come. First. – Drunk but not in love
Talking about how they feel. You don’t have to pour your soul out on a regular basis, but you shouldn’t be afraid to tell your girlfriend if you’re *gasp* experiencing emotions. – Lucky Jo
Ask us to show our tits. I mean come on. It’s time to stop respecting us and asking about our feelings or what that bitch in our sorority did and tell us to just show our goods. – Rachel Varina
Guys need to start being more decisive. It’s hot when a guy takes charge in just about any situation. Also don’t forget to open doors for women, it’s a virtually painless gesture that scores hella points. – Anonymous
Providing Chipotle at parties. – Blue-eyed-blondie
Being honest with girls. If you just want to see someone casually until you figure shit out, cool, just tell us. If you don’t want to hang out because you want to bro it out for the night, cool, just tell us. Guys have this perception that all girls will freak out if you don’t tell them exactly what they want to hear, but nope — being upfront and honest about your feelings and intentions will get you so much further than if you just lie until she’s tired of your shit. – Kayla Haby
Ehhh, that sounds like too much work. I’m gonna go have a beer with the guys..
Check out the previous Girls Tell All topics:
Thoughts On Manscaping
What Makes You Attracted To A Guy?
What Makes A Guy Unattractive?
Are You Looking For A Bad Boy?
What Causes You To Friend Zone A Guy?
What’s Your Favorite Thing About Frat Guys?
What’s Your Least Favorite Thing About Frat Guys?
What Hints Do Guys Never Pick Up On?
Does Size Matter?
What Do You Wish More Guys Would Do In Bed?
What’s The Worst Pickup Line You’ve Ever Heard?
What’s The Best Pickup Line You’ve Ever Heard?
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