Episode 3 of So I Was Like is out, (it’s on Spotify and Apple Music!!) and in it, we dive into the Frat Boy Experience. If youβre lucky enough to be a little out of the loop when it comes to talking to guys in frats, donβt worry, weβve got you covered. Jason in Phi Psi who will one day inevitably work at J.P. Morgan and have a Seeking Arrangements account will be all yours soon!
The main debate we had throughout the podcast was whether frat guys want a girl who is fun, outgoing, intelligent, and herself, or a silent girl who sits in the corner. I voted for the corner girl, Alyssa voted for the girl who is a human being. (Which is what you should be. In like, life. But talking to guys in frats is not life. Thatβs why I voted for corner girl.)
Donβt get me wrong, I donβt think fraternity guys are all bad, just most of them are. Iβm kidding. I actually have a lot of great friends who were in frats, but thatβs because most of them have graduated, so theyβve grown out of the pledging / hazing stage and are mostly normal now.
Listen to me closely: if a guy is currently a pledge, or if he has any leadership role over any pledges, you need out. Those guys need therapy more than they need a nice girl like you. Theyβre too busy being lined up in a basement eating sticks of butter, (or they’re the ones shoving the butter down the freshman guy’s throats), which is something they’d choose over having a girlfriend. Run.
Recording these podcasts with Alyssa is literally the highlight of my life, (listen here) and itβs all thanks to my favorite brand in the whole world, Sunday Scaries. Theyβre our besties and are giving all of you 25% off the entire site with the code βStayloyalβ!!!!
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